Choices

The world is divided into two kinds of people: those who have tattoos, and those who are afraid of people with tattoos. ~Author Unknown

The choice to have body art is personal. People get tattoos for various reasons, probably each is as different as the art that is chosen. When you make the decision to get inked you need to consider many things. Why am I getting this mark on my body? Does the design I have chosen truly reflect what I am trying to say? How will this look in 10, 20 or 30 years from now? The choice of artist is whole other set of considerations.

Everything we do in life has consequences, some are immediately evident, some will not come to light for years. We cannot see every change that will come our way, but a there a few things on which we can count. In relation to body art, we can be certain that other people will have a reaction to it. If I choose to wear a permanent piece of art on my skin and I choose to have it in a place where clothing will not cover it, this sends a rather more aggressive message to those around me than if I choose something that is covered, hidden and private. And one thing is certain, if I choose to be bold and public with my statement, I should not be surprised if potential employers and social contacts have a negative reaction.

Really, an employer does have to right to say to someone applying to join their organization "We need you to show up on time each day." or "We are pretty casual here, show up when you like, just get your work done." Those within the team know better than an outsider what is required to keep things moving in the chosen direction (despite what sports commentators believe about their own wisdom.) If the employer knows that an aggressive attitude will not blend with the team, can I expect them to upset everyone else just accommodate me who is not even on the team yet?

If you choose tattoos, do not be surprised or bitter because there are opportunities that are no longer available to you. Conversely, if you meet someone who is different than you be as respectful of their life choices as you want them to be of yours.